Showing posts with label Passion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Passion. Show all posts

Tuesday, 5 June 2012

Boat Racing - It's Anguilla's Ting!

A Boat Racing Story

On June 04th 2012 I boarded the Miss Anguilla (a top performer sailing boat) and we set sail from Sandy Ground to Crocus Bay to start a boat race. We raced from Crocus Bay to beyond Dog Island and back. I was excited because it was my first experience (hence my choice of a short race).

Miss Anguilla
About a year earlier, I had mentioned to Ponto (the Captain of the Miss Anguilla), my interest in participating in a race. He was more than happy to have me on board. However, while it sounded good to say it, for various reasons, I just didn’t follow through at that time.

That happens in life a lot doesn’t it? There is something we want to do...we put off our dreams until a later date. Sometimes we are scared of the unknown (hey the sea can be scary), sometimes we are afraid of what others might say or think (laughing right now as I remember the funny comments my friends made). Thanks for your support guys. Whatever the reason, the result is that too often that date never comes. Today if there is something you really want to do refocus and recommit to getting it done.

Both Ponto and Tim (a passionate boat racer) refuelled my commitment to race. Plus, I knew other females who had raced. Shout out to Lisa Rey! I totally enjoyed my boat racing experience, from the trash talk on the beach, to the trash talk on the boat as the guys argued about what to do. The Captain looked dapper in his sailing cap and remained calm amidst all the chatter and ‘expertise’ and guided the boat to a second place finish...Congrats Miss Anguilla.

The sea was calm, the sun was warm upon my face, the breeze was refreshing, and the sails of our boat and the other boats were majestic. It was a beautiful day but hey no sleeping!

For any person who has raced, they know though that on the boat you have to be constantly alert as the wind may shift or you may have to tack and this requires a quick response which often means moving to the other side of the boat. I was one female among 19 males and I did not get stepped on...whew what a relief. In fact the guys were great...they explained what was going on, carried me on their neck on and off the boat, ensured I got food etc. They were gentlemen indeed.

I think we have one of the coolest national sports...a sport which can be enjoyed if you are on water or if you on land.  To be successful at it though takes strength and endurance, skill and an understanding of angles and degrees, a keen sense of direction, quick decision making, team work, leadership and a personal responsibility for the whole.

I now have a strong respect for what it takes to participate in our national sport and I am geared up and excited to hit the seas again in a few months during the Anguilla Summer Festival.

There are quite a bit of young people who race on the boats but I do fear that they may not be learning or grasping the skills and love inherent in some of the older folk. I would hate for us to lose the skill of boatbuilding or the love of racing. Today I want each of us to say yes and watch David Carty’s documentary on boat racing in Anguilla and also to seize the opportunity to race if it arises. It’s part of our culture. Participate.

Last week we celebrated Anguilla Day where we showed our patriotism through our colours, parades, round the island boat race etc. We also had Welches Fest where we enjoyed our national dish and other traditional food. Culture can only stay alive if we ensure it does. The older generation must teach the younger generation and the younger generation must be willing to learn and listen. Boat racing is we ting...an Anguillian ting...let’s keep it going!







Saturday, 14 January 2012

A Pumpkin Experience


True story – So a while back, my mom threw out some pumpkin seeds and a short while later, we noticed a pumpkin vine which quickly spread. A couple of days ago I saw a baby pumpkin and I was so excited.

Anyways, today I was examining the pumpkin patch and I saw the grown pumpkin in the picture. I screamed in excitement. I literally could not have been more excited if I had grown that pumpkin myself.

I immediately called my boyfriend to share the news of my grown pumpkin and like a proud mother I sent a picture of my grown pumpkin to one of my Blackberry groups which contains some of my close friends.

I shared the story of my pumpkin and I told my friends I now want to farm. Here is where the story takes a turn. My girlfriend says...’Farm Shelly.... Really?’ And just like that, my head came out of the clouds and reality set in. I was not going to be a farmer. I don’t like dirt. I don’t have the time or will. I don’t have a passion for it.

That doesn’t mean that I won’t grow stuff. My boyfriend planted a mango tree for me which I have been watering regularly (even though it’s still not doing too well).  I will even go so far as to plant some other seeds and my lime tree which has been in a pot for months. However, the reality is despite this feel good experience of finding a pumpkin, I won’t be a farmer.

Have you ever had a pumpkin experience? Did something good happen to you by a fluke? Did you reap a reward without sowing seeds?  Did you stumble upon a pumpkin and jumped straight into farming?

I learnt a few lessons from my pumpkin experience and my very brief farming aspiration:

1)    Whether it is your next relationship or your next career move...think it through before jumping into it. Is it someone or something you are passionate about?

2)    Very seldom do we get long lasting benefits from an initiative in which we do not put in hard work and commitment (for e.g. unless someone starts to weed my pumpkin vine, all the baby pumpkins may not survive).

3)    It is good to have a friend who will say ‘Get Real’ sometimes. Of course, if this friend is just a naysayer and negative all around, this person should not be your friend. But, if this friend is also supportive for things she/he knows you will succeed at, nurture that friendship.

So, I mentioned my mango tree earlier and I will keep you updated on its progress. My mango tree is struggling but I have faith that it will survive. Similarly, I have faith that my relationship, my career and my other dreams will also continue to strengthen.

I continue to Say Yes to Today every day. I hope you say yes to today too.




Saturday, 6 August 2011

Embrace Your Passion Today!

Passion breeds Purpose!

A fitting tag line for From within Dance (FWD) group – a dance company in Anguilla. The first time I heard it, I fell in love with the concept. Passion truly does breed purpose.

I am passionate about a lot of things…..foremost is my relationship with family and friends. Outside of that, I devour books, I have a strong interest and involvement in youth development and helping others and I love travelling and learning about new cultures.

Passion can wean and it can grow and the object of passion can change. For many of us, our passions lurk beneath the surface. Many times we are too afraid to let it show, too afraid of what others might say, too afraid of failure, too afraid to simply be, too afraid to make a choice.

It is so refreshing when you encounter someone who is passionate about what they do. It shows!!  Their face lights up, they are full of energy, they have purpose.  Your passion shines through everything you do but when you are not passionate about what you do, it shows as well.  Personally, when this happens, I know within me that it is time to make a choice, make a change and move on.

Passion breeds purpose.
Let your passion loose today!